I knew of Malaysia as a multi ethnic state of course with an indigenous Malay majority and Chinese and Indian minorities. And that is also how I remembered the country from my first Asian trip more than 20 years ago.
But on a recent visit to Kuala Lumpur I was surprised to see how truly multi ethnic this country is. There were some from neighbouring Thailand, selling great food. There were many from neighbouring Indonesia, working in the palm oil plantations or else running a small business. Or selling great food. I saw a few Laotians – and know that it is rare to meet someone from Laos that far from home. I saw the lone Burmese woman.
Many Nepali work in security. I remembered the departing groups of guest workers at Kathmandu airport – sent off by their families with small flower wreaths and big tika’s, lined up at separate immigration counters, perplexed by the experience of leaving behind all that was known to them. They guard the entrance to the compound where I stay. They open up once they understand we have been to their home town in the Tarai. Same for their Cambodian colleague from Kampong Chhnang who starts telling that his friend has got dengue, and that shifts are twelve hours and the commute is long, and that pay is just 250 $ a month. But that it is more than he can make at home.
Pakistani owned the computer shop. I saw Iranians – students or refugees that wasn’t clear. I saw many from the Middle East.
An Arabian couple joins me in the elevator of KL Tower. She is dressed in black head to toe – only in front of her eyes her veil gives way briefly. I ask him where they are from – ‘Saudi’. I wouldn’t dare to ask her. When we get up there she takes his hand, pulls him with her and side by side and very close together they disappear among the other tourists.
And then I am aware of them everywhere in the streets and in the shopping malls. Young guys in casual western dress and young women in chador with only that narrow opening at eye level. Repressed? Not free? They walk hand in hand, arm in arm, happy as young couples everywhere.